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What If They Don’t Leave? The Real Cost of Office Drama, Silence, and Skipping Employee Development

Healthcare workplace culture meeting among healthcare professionals discussing collaboration and employee engagement

Healthcare workplace culture influences far more than employee retention. It shapes teamwork, engagement, leadership, and ultimately the patient experience. Because our work puts us in regular conversations with healthcare professionals at every stage of their careers, we gain a unique perspective on why people stay, why they leave, and what the best healthcare organizations do differently.

One advantage of spending every day in the healthcare talent market is that we hear the same themes repeatedly. Because our work puts us in regular conversations with healthcare professionals at every stage of their careers, we gain a unique perspective on why people stay, why they leave, and what the best healthcare organizations do differently.

This piece is about three things that show up together more often than leaders realize: everyday office conflict that management ignores, the more serious problem of workplace bullying, and the false economy of skipping professional development because “what if they leave.” I’d rather ask a different question, and I’ll get there. But first, the drama.

Why Healthcare Workplace Culture Matters More Than Pay

Workplace incivility isn’t a soft-skills footnote anymore; it’s measurable, and the numbers are not small. SHRM’s Civility Index has tracked this closely: in a recent quarter, workers who experienced or witnessed incivility lost an average of roughly 36 to 37 minutes of productivity per incident, and those affected took nearly two extra days off work in the following month. More than a quarter of U.S. workers say they’re likely to leave a job in the coming year specifically because of incivility they experienced or witnessed.

Employees who describe their workplace as “uncivil” are roughly three times more likely to be dissatisfied with their job and twice as likely to leave within a year. 

Here’s the part leadership teams underestimate: this isn’t a rare, isolated flare-up. Research on managerial time allocation consistently puts conflict resolution at somewhere between a quarter and a full day of a manager’s week; time that isn’t going toward scheduling, patient flow, coaching, or anything that moves the practice forward. Drama isn’t just an HR nuisance. It’s an operating cost with a number attached to it, and healthcare, where every hour of a supervisor’s attention is already spoken for, feels it more acutely than most industries.

When Leadership Looks the Other Way, Employees Hear It Loud and Clear

Here’s where I want to push back on a common assumption: that ignoring conflict is a neutral act. It isn’t. SHRM’s research found that a strong majority of employees who experienced workplace incivility believe their manager could have done more to prevent it, and a comparable share believe managers care more about hitting business targets than about how people are treated day to day. Silence from leadership doesn’t read as neutrality to the people watching. It reads as permission.

And the fallout compounds. Foundational research from Harvard Business Review’s Christine Porath and Christine Pearson found that after experiencing incivility, a large share of employees intentionally scale back their effort, a smaller but still significant share deliberately reduce the quality of their work, and a meaningful minority take their frustration out on the people they’re supposed to be serving. In a healthcare setting, “the people they’re supposed to be serving” are patients. That’s not a culture problem anymore. That’s a patient-experience problem wearing a culture problem’s clothes.

If you’re a practice owner or an administrator and you’ve been telling yourself that a specific tension between two staff members will “work itself out,” I’d gently ask: how long have you been telling yourself that, and what has it cost you in turnover, in patient complaints, or in the good employees who quietly disengaged rather than get pulled into it?

Bullying Is a Different Problem — and It’s More Common Than Most Leaders Want to Admit

Civility issues and workplace bullying are not the same thing, and treating them the same is part of why bullying persists unchecked. Civility is about tone and friction. Bullying is repeated, targeted, and designed to intimidate or diminish and it requires a different response, not a softer version of the same one.

The Workplace Bullying Institute’s national survey work has found that when you combine people who’ve been directly bullied with those who’ve witnessed it, roughly half the U.S. workforce is touched by this in some way. Their research also points to an uncomfortable pattern: the majority of documented bullying situations involve someone in a position of authority as the source, not a peer conflict between equals. That matters, because it means the person an employee would normally report to is sometimes the problem and most people already sense that reporting up a chain that includes their bully is a losing move, which is exactly why so much of it goes undocumented.

An unreported problem isn’t a solved problem. It’s a problem your best people have simply stopped bringing to you.

What this means practically: a written conduct policy that only addresses obvious harassment isn’t enough. Leaders need a defined, confidential path for reporting patterns of intimidation or exclusion; one that doesn’t route exclusively through the person’s direct supervisor and a track record of actually using it. Employees don’t believe a policy exists because it’s in a handbook. They believe it exists because they’ve seen it applied.

The Development Question Most Leaders Get Backwards

Now to the piece I think about the most, because I hear this concern directly from owners and administrators in this market: “If we invest in training, certifications, or a real career path for this employee, and they leave anyway, we’ve lost that money and that time.”

It’s a reasonable fear on its face. It’s also the wrong question. Here’s the one I’d ask instead:

What if you don’t invest in your employee’s development, and they stay?

That’s the scenario nobody budgets for, and it’s the more expensive one. An employee who wanted to grow, didn’t get the opportunity, and stayed anyway isn’t a retention win. They’re often a disengagement risk sitting quietly inside your organization, doing the minimum, occasionally becoming the source of the very drama we started this article with.

LinkedIn’s most recent Workplace Learning Report backs this up from the data side. Career progression is consistently ranked as employees’ number one motivation to keep learning at all ahead of compensation, ahead of flexibility. And yet the same report found that the share of employees who say their manager actually helped them build a career plan in the last six months has been falling, not rising. Only a minority of organizations qualify as what LinkedIn calls “career development champions” companies that deploy multiple real tactics, not just an annual review checkbox and those companies consistently outperform the rest on retention, engagement, and business results.

What This Looks Like Specifically in Healthcare

The healthcare data makes the stakes even sharper. NSI Nursing Solutions’ most recent National Health Care Retention & RN Staffing Report puts the average cost of turning over a single bedside RN north of $60,000, with the average hospital losing several million dollars a year to nursing turnover alone. Nearly a quarter of newly hired RNs leave within their first year. And here’s the detail that should reframe how every healthcare leader thinks about timing: workforce research consistently shows that the decision to leave is typically made 60 to 90 days before an employee ever submits a resignation. The disengagement is visible well before the exit interview if anyone’s looking for it.

A strong healthcare workplace culture helps organizations retain talented professionals before turnover becomes a costly problem.

That window matters just as much for dental assistants, front desk coordinators, and administrative staff as it does for RNs, even where the dollar figures are smaller. An employee who feels capped, unheard, or stuck in a role with no visible next step starts checking out long before they start job hunting. By the time they hand in notice, the actual loss already happened weeks or months earlier, in reduced effort, reduced initiative, and reduced patience with everyone around them.

What Healthcare Leaders Can Actually Do About All Three

These three problems; unresolved conflict, unreported bullying, and skipped development aren’t separate issues with separate fixes. They feed each other. A team with no growth path gets restless. A restless team produces more friction. Unaddressed friction, left alone by leadership long enough, curdles into something closer to bullying. A few starting points I’d suggest to any practice or health system owner working through this:

  • Separate your civility policy from your bullying policy. One is about culture norms; the other needs a confidential reporting path that doesn’t run exclusively through the alleged offender’s own chain of command.
  • Train managers in conflict resolution specifically. Most managers have never received formal training in this, despite spending a disproportionate share of their week on exactly this kind of issue.
  • Build career conversations into regular one-on-ones, not just the annual review. Even a modest, honest conversation about where someone could go next changes the calculus of whether they stay engaged.
  • Watch for early disengagement signals, not just exit interviews. By the time someone resigns, the decision was made months earlier.
  • Say something the first time, not the fifth. Silence from leadership is never read as neutral. It’s read as approval.

Improving healthcare workplace culture isn’t about eliminating every disagreement. It’s about creating an environment where employees feel respected, supported, and able to grow.

None of this requires a large budget. It requires a willingness to treat “they might leave anyway” as the less expensive risk than “they stay and disengage.” In a labor market as tight as healthcare’s, the leaders who get this right aren’t the ones who never lose an employee. They’re the ones who never lose one they didn’t see coming.

Greg Ikner is the founder of The AGA Group, a healthcare recruiting, staffing, and workforce consulting firm based in Kansas City, Missouri, working across dental, medical, administrative, and executive healthcare staffing. If your team is wrestling with retention, culture, or where to find the right people to fill the gap, we’re always glad to be a sounding board.

Sources referenced: SHRM Civility Index (2025); SHRM, “The Cost of Incivility: Addressing Workplace Challenges into 2025”; Harvard Business Review, Porath & Pearson, “The Price of Incivility” (2013); Workplace Bullying Institute, U.S. Workplace Bullying Survey (2021, 2024); LinkedIn, Workplace Learning Report (2025); NSI Nursing Solutions, National Health Care Retention & RN Staffing Report (2026).

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